Monday, December 10, 2012

The thing about Big Thing is no one can talk about Big Thing

It's very much like fight club.

And here's the thing, I want to talk about it. Because Big Things should be talked about (that's what she said?).

So here we are not talking about Big Things.

Big Thing is preventing me from sleeping at night. I get so worked up that I can't relax. It's like I relive the Big Thing every night.  I'm hoping for some sort of resolution this week, even if it's only internal because I can't change anything.

So here's to Mondays - a new start, a new outlook, and a wee bit of hope.

What's going to be new with you this Monday?

21 comments:

  1. I read the because of that big thing post and it made me teary. I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. There are so many things running through my mind about what it could possibly be but I'm pushing them out. Stay strong. When you're ready you know you have an amazing support network (on the blog and in real life) xoxox

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  2. Oh dear...I hope this big thing gets resolved...I hope your okay!

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  3. Just keep swimming...just keep swimming...

    My Monday is bringing my company Christmas party tonight. Yay?

    Hope you find some laughs today, or at least something to make you smile :o)

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  4. I hope you are well. I have been thinking about and praying for you in the last couple of days. Just know that I am here!

    XO Lourdes

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  5. Oh no, hang in there! I hope this gets resolved for you soon!

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  6. I am a relatively new reader, but I just wanted to tell you thave I hope you are able to come to peace with this "Big Thing" soon!

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  7. Boo! I'm hoping it gets better no matter what is it. When you are ready to talk about what it is, I'll be here! Hang in there girl.

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  8. Monday's are crazy. Usually for the good, but we finally find somewhere to live so I'll let it stay for now :) Hope everything works out for you! Keep your chin up soldier!

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  9. I feel out of the loop - what's this big thing? If I may ask I mean. :)

    ~Keith

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  10. We have a big thing too. I totally get it. Hopefully the big thing can give you a break this week!

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  11. Stupid Big Thing. To try and at least momentarily make you smile here are a collection of Big Things that are in no way terrible.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Australia's_big_things

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  12. Maybe if you can find a way to relax. I know easier said than done. Honestly, I'm a night owl. I guess. It is hard to fall asleep, for me. I did find that I love the last song on My My Morning Jacket CD. I didn't even know it was there. Anyway, it relaxes me. So does a little melatonin.

    Honestly, I think men can fall asleep at the snap of a finger. He also likes to hog the bed too, and sometimes gives hugs when I'm not really in the mood for them. Especially, when I'm half asleep.

    Hang in there.

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  13. I pray that this big thing transform itself into a good thing. May the big thing give you a break once in a while..i wish you comfort and strength. Hugs XX

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  14. It'll all get figured out! Keep your head up.

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  15. Keeping you in my thoughts lady, I really hope everything's okay.

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  16. aw lady :( I hope these feelings fade soon and that a right solution can be found for whatever Big Thing you are dealing with right now... I don't really know what else to say at this moment... I wish I could be of more help for you. Get well soon!

    My Monday didn't bring much new. Actually, I've found a solution for my not so big things, my thesis, and I finally see what path I should be following to succesfully complete it. well, at least the path I think would be succesfull :)

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  17. Thinking of you - best thing to do is distract yourself, find other little things to do that you love x

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  18. I'm so sorry about the Big Thing. I've had a really Big Thing a couple of times in my life that was a massive weight. I know you can't talk about it and that's okay. *HUG*

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  19. I hope that everything gets resolved and that this big thing eventually turns into a good thing rather than a bad thing.

    I totally know how it feels to have something big that you can't talk about right now. It eats me up inside, consumes my every thought...

    I know you said you can't talk about it yet, but I know that talking about it to someone always really helps me. And if it's something I really can't talk to anyone about, then I write about it somewhere private. Even if it means I end up deleting it once I'm done, I still was able to get it out of my head and some weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

    Anyway I hope things get better for you soon *hugs*

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  20. All I can send are hugs. Let us know how we can support you....

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