I read a lot of blogs where people write about how hard marriage is. Maybe because it's only been two years, but being married to Inspector Climate isn't hard at all. Recently, just being in my own company has been hard for me (for me, to be with me...yeah, I know). And I can't blame any of the "hardness" of marriage on Inspector Climate, but on our own expectations.
I feel horrible that I haven't landed a job and feel like I'm completely strangling our finances.
Inspector Climate feels guilty sometimes that we're stuck living in a city for his job when we'd both rather live in the country. I never think of this as something that is his fault at all and I certainly would never blame him for it.
Besides our own expectations of ourselves, the togetherness has never been all that difficult.
I basically still feel like this: